Jumat, 18 Juni 2010

Quran, Hadith, Science, Reality: All advice for Early Marriage



OUR MODERN (!?) GIRLS EXPECTATION FOR FUTURE HUSBAND HAS RAISED TO SKY LEVEL. THEY ARE DELAYING FOR MARRIAGE AND DEPRIVED THEMSELVES...AND THE BOYS TOO...
MODERN BOYS ALSO AFRAID ABOUT THESE GIRLS TO MEET THEIR SKY LEVEL DEMAND...
AS A RESULT MANY KIND OF INDISCIPLNED SPREADED IN THE SOCIETY CHATING, FRIENDSHIP ( Boy Friend / Girl Friend, In some Magazines people write the stories about the Sex with His Girl Friend), RAPE, TEASE, FORNICATION, ADULTERIES, ETC... INCREASING DAY BY DAY...BUT DONT FIND SOLUTION THOUGH ALL ARE MUSLIMS!!!

Medical Science says that:-
For Girls their best time is 13 years - 35 years (for 80% Females and balnace 20% upto 45yrs) for Marry and become a Mother. If a girl dont become mother of her 1st child before 30 years then it will create danger for her.

MODERN GIRLS DELAYED MARRIAGE FOR HIGHER STUDY & RICH HUSBAND.
-We forget that Wealth is not for whole life,
-nobody knows what will be happened tomorrow/in future.
-Your Rich Husband can loose his leg/hands by accidents, can die,
-can loose the job,
-can give loss in business.

So, Future is always uncertain. You have to ready to face any situation in your life. And this is not TRUE that ONLY Wealthy people are happy.


WE HAVE TO FOLLOW QURAN AND HADITH AS A MUSLIM

And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Sâlihûn (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allâh will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allâh is All-Sufficent for His creatures’ needs, All-Knowing (about the state of the people). 24:32

BUKHARI: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 4: Narrated 'Abdullah:

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
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And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allâh enriches them of His Bounty. And such of your slaves as seek a writing (of emancipation), give them such writing, if you know that they are good and trustworthy. And give them something yourselves out of the wealth of Allâh which He has bestowed upon you. And force not your maids to prostitution, if they desire chastity, in order that you may make a gain in the (perishable) goods of this worldly life. But if anyone compels them (to prostitution), then after such compulsion, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to those women, i.e. He will forgive them because they have been forced to do this evil action unwillingly).24:33

BUKHARI: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 7: Narrated Said bin Jubair:

Ibn 'Abbas asked me, "Are you married?" I replied, "No." He said, "Marry, for the best person of this (Muslim) nation (i.e., Muhammad) of all other Muslims, had the largest number of wives."

Volume 7, Book 62, Number 17: Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah:

When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'



Volume 7, Book 62, Number 20: Narrated Abu Burda's father:

Allah's Apostle said, any man who has a slave girl whom he educates properly, teaches good manners, manumits and marries her, will get a double reward And if any man of the people of the Scriptures believes in his own prophet and then believes in me too, he will (also) get a double reward And any slave who fulfills his duty to his master and to his Lord, will (also) get a double reward."

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